女人说...

现在的好男人
不是已婚
就是Gay
其余的都死光了

可是女人也说...

男人不坏, 女人不爱
所以男人不容易当

Today amongst friends, we had discussion about Love topic.
Yeap, guys like me who haven't been into one can only talk
But having the rights to talk doesn't mean I have the rights to make them listen.
Becuase of the fact that I do not even own a Diploma in Love, ppl don't listen to me
So basically, I'm the only one listening to what I talk
Meaning which, I am talking to myself

Now, I shall continue that tradition of discussing LOVE with myself

My thoughts,
I think it's easy to...

• Have a crush
• Like someone
• Go into a relationship

But difficult to

• Be in Love

... what more, fall in love!

I'll explain why later

Like any typical guys
I have my number of crushes; likings

BUT not been into 1 such cinderella story

Many a times, I'm eager to get into a relationship.
Maybe, just to 'try' it even though I'm not totally over tt gal
But the only thing that's stopping me is "Is it fair to her?"

So I end up still at the very same spot I was agesssssssssssssss back.
And stick to the whole "Let's Just be Friends" things which is TOTALLY uncool!
...

Now, ask any guy/gal on the street, how do you know she's the right one?
Everyone will tell you, it's about Feel

I say yes!
But slightly more.

Because having the Right feel only brings u to like the other party.
But a total of 3 elements presides

1. Feel
2. Time
3. Type

Time can range from:
are you busy OR have higher priority in life now --> Is her parents alright with it?
And if you are at the right timing, half-way done!

Many ppl who passes the above 2 test will usually tie the knot.
Good thing if it works out.

But the question remains, is she the right one?

The right one? The One that will spend the rest of your life with? Can you? Will she?
Does she fits into your category?
For example:
if you have parents, 1 thing tt'll go thru ur brain is, is she filial?
if u're stubborn, you may need someone who is willing to take a step back

I think by now, ppl who read this post will go...
"U HAVEN'T EVEN BEEN IN LOVE! SO SHUT UP!"
&
"Ed, Love with your heart not your brain!"

My rebuttal?
"Einstein didn't need to do time-travel to make people believe in the Theory of Relativity"
&
"Love with 70% of your heart and 30% of your brain"

As for what I've written...
it's just a theory,
a theory that can never be experiment w/ practical
but also, never able to be proven wrong.

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A friend of mine just gave birth
I'd love to have kids soon too!